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mind reading
November 12, 2008, 1:44 am
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If a baby starts to cry several hours after drinking his last bottle, his mother knows precisely what he’s feeling: He’s hungry. But suppose a woman’s eyes brim with tears while she watches a DVD. Her husband sinks into the couch: What is she so upset about? She might tell him directly: “This movie is so tragic. It’s all about a doomed romance.” That may be true. But she could be thinking about how the story reminds her of her own marital troubles. Maybe she’s feeling hurt because she thinks her husband should realize what’s bothering her and acknowledge it. Or maybe she isn’t even aware that her real-world concerns are intensifying her reaction to the fictional couple.

Quickly and unknowingly, he scours his mental files—on his wife’s relationship history, on her reaction to the fight they had that morning, on the way she typically reacts to similar movies. He notes the particular quiver to her voice, observes the way she’s curled up on the couch, watches the expressions flickering across her face. He takes in information from all of these channels, filters it through his own wishes and biases… until finally it hits him: She knows about his mistress!

Every day, whether we’re pushing for a raise, wrestling with the kids over homework, or judging whether a friend really likes our latest redecorating spree, we’re reading each other’s minds. Drawing on our observations, our databank of memories, our powers of reason, and our wellsprings of emotion, we constantly make educated guesses about what another person is thinking and feeling. Throughout the most heated argument or the most lighthearted chat, we’re intently collecting clues to what’s on the other person’s mind at the moment. “It’s a perceptual ability I call mindsight,” says Daniel Siegel, UCLA psychiatrist and author of The Mindful Brain. “It allows your brain to create a map of another person’s internal state.”

Mind reading of this sort—not to be confused with the infallible superhero kind of telepathy—is a critical human skill. It’s the way we make sense of other people’s behavior and decide on our own next moves. Mind reading enables us to negotiate, compete, cooperate, and achieve emotional closeness with others. It lets us figure out when we’re being manipulated or seduced. It’s how we know when someone finds our jokes hilarious or is humoring us out of politeness. Mind-reading ability is perhaps the most urgent element of social intelligence.

Do it poorly and the consequences are serious: It can lead to conflict born of misunderstanding. It can make us feel lonely within a relationship. It can even incite violence: Abusive husbands typically—and inaccurately—attribute critical thoughts to their wives; that’s why they lash out. Difficulty divining others’ thoughts and feelings—”mindblindness”— characterizes autism and is what makes the condition so socially debilitating.

Decades of research on mind reading (or, as psychologists call it, empathic accuracy) now reveal how it works, who’s especially good at it, and how we can improve our ability to divine others’ thoughts—even when our conversation partners may not know their own minds. The thoughts and feelings of others, including those closest to us, are far from transparent; that makes mind reading the only way to know someone beyond the mere surface. It’s the only way to achieve true intimacy. And the only way to love someone for who he or she really is.

Take for example this picture of mind reading.

Yan ang Mind Reading..

Yan ang Mind Reading..

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wag matakot
October 22, 2008, 2:12 am
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Naiinis ako ngayung araw na to. Nakow!!,, kasi ganito ang nangyari,, bumibili ako ng tinapay,, syempre almusal,, alam nyo na kung anung tinapay yun,, french bread. Ang ganda pa naman ang approach ko dun sa tindera ng cheap na nagmamagandang bakeshop na yun.

    “Miss,, 20 pieces na pandesal po.”

Akala ko narinig na nya kasi nasa harapan lang naman sya ng bakery. May dumating na isang costumer,, at yun muna ang inintindi nya. Tapos tumingin sya sa akin. Maya maya,, dumating yung parang boss nila. Maayos manamit at diretso lang sa loob ng booth nila. 10 minutes na akong naghihintay at wala pang umaasikaso sa akin. Sige,, pasensya lang ako. Nagsalita ulit ako.

     “Miss,, pandesal nga po,, 20 pieces!”

Medyo napalakas ata yung boses ko at napalingon bigla yung boss nila na ewan. Nakow!!,, at sabi ba naman dun sa tindera nya na,, “Di mo ba nakikita yan?? Ba’t ayaw mong tindahan yan,, mukhang nagmamadali eh!”. Whatdfukss!!! Nag-init agad ang ulo ko at di na nakayanan nung bumbunan ko kaya’t bigla na lang sumabog,, eto ang naging conversation namin.

     Jobit: Sir kanina pa akong 6:30 dito. Nung dumating ka andito pa ako at di pa nakaka-alis.

     Boss: Eh kasalanan ko bang anjan ka pa rin hanggang ngayun?? Siguro di ka nagsasalita kaya’t di ka naririnig ng mga tindera ko. At akala mo kung sino kang makasigaw. Bibili ka lang naman eh, ganyan ka pa magsalita.

     Jobit: Excuse me, Sir! Ewan ko kung bingi yung tindera mo o nabibingi-bingihan lang. Kasi naman,, wag kang kukuha ng tindera na tanga.

     Boss: Maghinay hinay ka sa pagsasalita mo ah.

     Jobit: Nakow! Tanungin mo sa kanya (tindera) kung anung oras pa ako nandito at hanggang ngayun eh nandito pa rin ako.

     Boss: (Tinanung ang tindera) Anung oras pa sya nandito??

     Tindera: Po??? Ha???

     Jobit: Oh,, kita mo na!!?? Wag kang kukuha ng binging tindera! Nakow!! Kayo lang ang tindahan na ganito! Yung ibang bakery jan,, kahit na maliit lang,, basta may nakitang bibili eh,, lalapit agad sa customer. Ngayun alam mo na?? Tsaka di ako Sumisigaw kanina noh,, napalakas lang boses ko. At talagang nagmamadali ako!

     Boss: Eh,, kung ayaw mo ng binging tindera, wag ka ditong bumili!

     Jobit: Sa inyo na lang yung mga tinapay nyo!! Isaksak mo rin yan sa mga tenga nyo!! Pare -pareho kayung mga  incompetent!! Pwe!!! Leche!!!

     Boss: Anung sabi mo??!!

     Jobit: Bingi!!! Leche!!!! (sabay lipat sa ibang bakery)



grade 1
October 18, 2008, 2:15 am
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As I remember,, nung bata pa ako (hanggang ngayun pa naman eh),, active na active ako nun sa school,, kailanagan eh,, kasi kung hindi ako nakapag uwi ng quiz paper na walang star,, ang ulam ko,, gulay! Sino ba naman ang may gusto ng puro gulay na lang ang ulam noh?? At take note, wala pa akong baon,, sows!! Masyadong strict ang parents ko pagdating sa pag-aaral nun,, kaya eto ako ngayun,, pablog-blog na lang. Hehehe!!!

Aktwali,, marami naman akong awards na nakukuha nun eh,, ikaw ba naman ang active na active,, oh sa magandang salita ay,, atat na atat na makakuha ng STAR eh,, syempre,, pinadudugo ko ang boung utak ko at pinapuputok ko ang lahat ng ugat ko mula ulo hanggang paa para lang hindi makakuha ng MOON este zero pala. Sampol nga mga awads ko..

Most Punctual

Most Punctual

Most Active

Most Active

Most Concern Student

Most Concern Student

Oh di ba?? sino ba naman ang hindi magkakarun ng award nyan?? Wow!!!!



law-law
October 16, 2008, 8:05 am
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Rendition ni Bayani Agbayani ng Tagalog version ng Low. Natatawa ako pag naririnig ko ang mga corny na mga version tulad ng mga to. At kapag sinuwerte pa eh,, nakakasungkit pa ng Platinum Award,, nakow,, Pinoy nga naman oh.

Ito naman ang rendition ko ng lawlaw,, hay,, ewan ko din kung walang matawa dito.

Ten Years Of Progression

Ten Years Of Progression

Oh,, di ba?? Yan ang totoong lawlaw!!!



an ass!!!
October 16, 2008, 2:41 am
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Wala akong maisip na explanation dito sa post ko,, kasi naexplain na nilang lahat. Sinong sila?? Hehehee!!! Read!!!…

Poor Sperm
Poor Sperm
Kawawa naman sila ‘noh?? Hehehehe!!!
Poor Sperm 2


huli
October 15, 2008, 9:55 am
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Ang pinaka–nakakathrill na nagawa ko sa buong buhay ko ay ang mag-quickie. Quick sex sa madaling salita. Para sa akin kasi,, mas nakaka-entice ng feeling yung alam mong di lang puro sarap ang iniintindi mo,, kundi pati na rin yung nasa sitwasyon ka na maaari kang mahuli sa ginagawa mong kamunduhan. Ganun ang quickie,, madaliang sex. Madaliang pagpapalabas ng libog.

Pero ingat lang na di mahuli,, ng kung sinumang mata sa paligid.

Tulad na lang ng nasa larawang ito..

Turles in Action - Huli!!!

Turles in Action - Huli!!!

Oh,, di ba?? Ito lang talaga ang mahirap at nakakatawa sa quick sex,, kasi maaari kang mahuli anytime. Pero aaminin ko talaga,, kung gusto nyo ng adventure, why not try quick sex??



gulay
October 14, 2008, 1:49 am
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Nung bata pa ako,, puro gulay na lang ang ulam namin. Wala naman akong magagawa kasi nasa baryo ang bahay namin at malayo sa bayan. Kaya lingguhan lang kami kung makakain ng flesh meat.

Okey na rin yun. Kasi kung di ako nasanay na kumain ng gulay,, eh ako naman ngayun ang magiging gulay,, hehehe!!

Pero,, nung nagbinata na ako,, nagbago na ang panlasa ko sa mga gulay. Bakit kaya?? Dahil ba sa marami na akong ibang putahe na natitikman,, o di kaya naman,, mga street foods na ang ibang nilalafang ko,, o di kaya naman,, dahil sa isang ito.

Veggie Alien

Veggie Alien

Nyay!!!,, Anu ba yan?? Mukhang ako pa ang kakainin ng monster gulay na ito ah. Hehehe!!! Pero di naman talaga monster ang gulay eh. Tulad ng isang ito,,

Erotic Vegie

Erotic Vegie

Oh di ba?? Kainan na!!!